Monday, August 30, 2010

Lifes Good!!

Youth once gone can never come back! And i realized that im the kind of person who doesnt wanna look back and regretted of all the wonderful things that i could have done if only i was young! From getting into trouble with parents to achieving a scholarship in academics! I wanna experience everything in life!!!



Some people might wish to disagree with me...i dont blame them! Its highly subjective! I dont mind getting into serious trouble with my parents as long as i can look back and say...'damn..those were the good times!'....after all..i was taught that being street smart was better than being book smart! But then again...that can be subject to a high degree of debate! lol

Whether being book smart or street smart the whole point of that is to make sense of the small amount of time that we spend here as humans and what we call as life!! People come up with their version of how they like to enjoy life..let it be a quite, conserved and a homely life...or a wild, exciting and adventurous life. Both are not bad... as long as you loved what you went through.

Back in uni...i was taught that you might have come across some old people who are just pure nasty! All they do is yell, complain and grumble...apparently..the cause of that is because they failed to achieve satisfaction from their life...in sense..when they look back and reflect..there are very little things that make them feel like their lives are fully lived and so they become people in despair!!!!!!!!

And that day..i made up my mind that i dont wanna be a grumbling old grandmother to my grandkids...and so i decided to take on my version of what you call a good life...WILD!!! hahahaha...but i know sooner or later i am gonna settle down with kids and husband and still be happy with that life! *wink*

And heres to you....live life fully and have the best time of your life for the short time that your here!!

Till next time...toodlez
xo

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Waiting!

The worst thing in the world???

Waiting!!!! and specially when there is absolutely NOTHING to do and your just sitting there and waiting for someone or something!

Personally, i had this experience just today!! I went to get my hair relaxed and they applied the evil smelling thing on my head and i was stuck in my seat for like 1 million years!!! And then finally when the salon girl came around my heart jumped for joy!! lol

My Haiirrrr!!
After relaxing em'


Even in everyday life, our patience is often tested and i know i react badly....VERY badly!!! coz as for me...i know i have very little patience...specially when i meet stupid people who are not sure of what they are talking about...i fly off the handle!

And sometimes its kids! Generally i love kids but there are those annoying ones who never listen to their parents and talk like they gave birth to their parents??? i feel like slapping them! (but then there is a child protection crap and all!! urrgh) kids these days!!

Or when you are waiting for someone online (dont get the wrong idea now! it can mean a friend as well! lol) and they never turn up and you text them saying 'I was waiting for you all day long online...where were u?' and they reply 'Oh sorry dude..i was held up with someting else'....*Grrrr* there is something called the telephone invented by Graham Bell( was that him!?  i hope so! ) why dont you call up and tell the poor soul who's waiting to go do something useful?? some people never get it!

But sometimes, it helps you reflect how patient you will be with life decisions! Will u be hasty (like me!!! ) or will you carefully weigh the facts and decide! (im trying to change btw!) Time lost can never be rewound so make the best out of the present and plan well for the future! coz there are lotsa people out there who wish they had a time-machine to take them back! *wink*

Till next time...toodlez
xo

Monday, August 23, 2010

You Make Me Dance Like a Fool..Forget How To Breathe...Shine Like Gold

Whats the first thought that crosses your mind when you read those lines???? If u guessed... someone's in love..your right! and its none other than Uncle Kracker in his song Smile!

Love does exist everywhere, but finding the right one is just not that easy a task. You might believe that someone is The One...but life might wish to teach you another lesson entirely different altogether. Love happens! (yes it does! lol) but its not perfect....the person might not always make u dance like a fool but make you cry like a fool. The partner might make you forget how to breathe and sometimes it's because your sooooo angry with that one! And so the list goes on. Love is not easy an easy thing to keep...or let me word it proper...its not always a bed of roses and not always happy like Uncle Kracker sings.

Just the other day, i saw my neighbor, who happens to be a 15-year old girl, smiling and signing to the the next door boy. I thought to myself...'Oh yeah..ive been down that road babe...and it's not a good one all the time I tell u!'.

The thing is...you might think im a love-hater???? NO FRIGGIN WAY!! lol....relationships are the best thing that happen to human kind and it does make us happy...very happy at times. But I'm just saying...that they are not rainbows and candy everyday when you get into a serious relationship with someone who is just like you! Im just 20 (I get the feeling that i sound like a 40-year old woman!). And i beleive that i have a lot to see in life...but sometimes i think...'Are relationships really my-type, or is the timing just wrong??'. I just realized that men will be men and there is no such thing as the perfect man that every girl dreams of.

Every human has flaws and fights are bound to come into the relationship. But you've got to watch out when the fights make you soo unhappy that you start searching for affection elsewhere. Thats when you know trouble is brewing. So just be on the watch-out! *wink*



Well..i just happen to be listening to Uncle Kracker's Smile song and I thought to myself....those lyrics are only fit for fairy-tales. There are no such things as having the feeling of flying when your in love, or your appetite declines when you love someone etc etc.....The feeling of being in love just feels soo good that it makes you happy to such a great extent that some people like to exaggerate into sensations of flying, falling and so on and so forth!


But love is truly a great experience (so far from what i have seen)....but im sure maybe at least once, you would have had that feeling im talking about! The fluttering feeling, the feeling that you gonna faint when she/he asks you to their party whatever!! Somewhere down the line, all of us will experience /have experienced that!!

And for those who are still searching theirs....'Good-Luck Mate!!' :))

Till next time....toodlez...
xo


Friday, August 20, 2010

Polar Opposites

Have you guys ever had that experience? One time u feel on the top of the world, and the next moment its all gone and u feel like ur so low that u cud reach to the core of the earth?? lol....well for the ones who have never had that experience, consider urselves lucky coz it is the most annoying feeling. Actually, it depends on the context! say u are really down and some news makes u go top of the world!!! now thats wt v call a positive emotion!

But, when the vice-versa happens, thats the WORST feeling ever!!! its like one moments ur flying soo high, and before u realize, there a pair of huge hands gripping at u and pulling u down!! urrrghhh!! u know wt i mean rite! ;)

However, thats what exactly happen to me today unfortunately! i was soo happy and laafing (prolly too much!! ) and the exact opposite happen to me during the evening! *sigh*

There is a saying among the tamil culture that when u laugh too much, ur bound to be upset(cry) proportionately. I used to dismiss this idea like the many ideas put forward by our tamil ancestors (where most of them are quite stupid to listen to!! ) . For example:

1. If there is a crow outside your house cawing nonstop, there is gonna be an unexpected visitor!!!
2. If a dog howls towards the direction of your house, there is gonna be a death!!
3. If you dream of feces, you will win a lottery!!
4. If your palm itches, you will get money falling on your hands!!
5. If you wear you clothes inside out, you will get new clothes!!

I will stop at 5, since it is my lucky number! *wink*....as u can see above some of them are absurd and dont make sense at ALL!!!! It was all a made-up story to comfort the person experiencing troubled feelings! (if you notice closely, most of the unpleasant feelings bring good luck miraculously! ). So maybe they were all created with a good-nature by some kind soul trying to comfort a troubled man.

But, sometimes i figured, there is no good outcomes if you experience troubled feelings. You have to just deal with it and get on with life!!!!! No one is gonna lie to you saying, "If you have someone is being unkind to you, there is gonna be showers of Gold!". As i said before....'just deal with it!'.

Till next time...toodlez!
xo

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Supernatural

From a very young age..i used to be very taken by strange, supernatural things. Although, I was still at cross roads about whether they were true, or were just a hoax by the profit-seeking entertainment industry is still not clear to me.

Nevertheless, this domain really interests me...i watch this TV show on AXN called Destination Truth, where the ppl try to capture some truly scary but yet amazing stories. One particular thing i liked was the case in Egypt about King Tutakamun. I'm sure you'll b able to find some on you tube or something.



And just today, i happen to catch Sixth Sense the movie after a long time! After the movie ended with an unexpected twist at the end, i started to flip through the channels and landed on Discovery channel and there was a  show about this woman who can talk to spirits.

Incidentally, she discovers this dead man's spirit from the 80s' trying to kill her coz he's mad at her for trying to uncover something evil this man did when he was alive and kicking!..anyhow, i was hooked onto this show when suddenly my TV just went blur! i flipped to other channels and they were all blur..... (OK i am NOT kidding and i swear to that! lol) so feeling a bit spooked..i switched it off for some time and went down to meet my parents gossiping about another family! ( *sigh* common among Asian families!)

Bored with their talk i went upstairs again and tried my TV and this time it worked! yayyyy!! and the show was still on. The lady who claims that she speaks to ghosts spoke with such persuasiveness and was determined to put the point across that this was infact a reality that we live in, with most of us wishing to ignore the whole thing. At this point, i was almost convinced and secretly happy that i myself was not the kind of girl who can see dead people! (that would just be SCARY!)

So, i was fascinated! (yea m easily distracted! lol) so then i thought il you tube some videos and see other people have to share with the world! lol and i found some interesting ones which i have added here....(check the links)....i googled some articles, but again it seemed that people all held mixed views....well whatever it is...the person responsible for creating this earth would know what lurks among the living being...and lets just leave that to Him! :)

And for the record.......'Things are not always what they seem to be!' (courtesy: Discovery Channel) *wink*

Till next time...toodlez
xo

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9L2lDHNmRFw&feature=related


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PURj-w5otiw

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

The First-Day effect

As a final year psychology student, i came across this very interesting yet true concept of what is known as the 'first-day effect'.

It said that people have this thing about having interest in doing something for the first few days...but later they lose it gradually and sometimes the motivation just extinguishes! lol how sad eh...

Well i think thats the effect i am on right now too!! i think about reporting to The High Life on a daily basis these days!....but im not sure that will last, come next month! lol.......nevertheless...why not do something dutifully until the motivation lasts so???.....anyways...today was a good day for me!

I did an exam well which i thought id fail and then i went on a shopping spree, thanks to my mom's credit card! *all hail credit cards*.....anyways..later i had to beg my mom to take me outta the store before the credit card exhausts itself (im so not having credit cards when i start earning proper!!!)...

It was a funny sight...anyways..here is a sample of what my bed looks like at the moment..(i have arranged it a bit! lol and some garments have not been added for laziness reasons! lol) ...

Ttill next time....toodlez...xo


Monday, August 16, 2010

Exam stress....Not!

I'm a very weird being actually....i get rarely stressed during exam times and tend to forget about having an exam at certain instances! lol to tell the truth...i have an exam tomorrow on a subject that im REEALLLY bad at! its no exaggeration but its soo true!

I almost failed this particular subject back in uni and i studied like 20 mins before the exam started (ppl PLS do not follow that! lol) that was a huge gamble!

But still i managed to pass that module with some decent marks and just when i thought i wouldnt have to face that subject again..here i am sitting for it again..the onli difference this time is that its a more advanced module than the first one! sounds sweett! lol .....

Anyhow...i managed to study a bit...and surf the net for the rest of the time!( the web is just addicitive i tell u!) but i just happen to find these very interesting exam papers of real people...they must have had some real guts to do that! lol its just funny! check em out!

Till next time! :) toodlez xo






How i found myself here....

hmmm so yea its true that i knew about blogs and bloggers for a long time...but i dont think i really got the motivation to start one myself! i do love writting and i used to have a diary long time ago as well..until that fateful day....wait for it.....the day my mom read it!! and then i decided that HELL NO! im not maintaining a diary again...EVER!

lol but its funny...i still liked to write...but blogs never really hit me..until a friend shared his blog with me....it was in tamil but i was very fascinated! it was like i was reading his diary..but only with his permission! this was awesome!! so then i thought...y not start one myself! maybe years later..i can show my kids what i was upto when their mom was still a 20 year-old girl who dreamed of a high life! it seemed almost perfect!

So i opened the blog sign up page home... and then it asks me to come up with a blog name! now that was the hardest part! i HATE coming up with names and titles coz im sooo bad at it! My hotmail, yahoo and gmail accounts all have lame names coz im bad at naming things! (God help my kids! lol)..

Anyways...i was staring at my screen blankly and then i just happen to look across my room at my clothes hanger and i saw something!!!! which made me realize how much i loved  'silk'.

Yea its tru..i love silk clothing...ranging from undergarments to shoes! i liked anything that was made of silk..or even coated with  silk cloth! so i came up with...'The girl in Silk'.....and for the record..the 'something' i saw was my silk, heart-patterned boxer shorts! so thanks to my heart-patterned boxers i got a new blog name! So now the next hurdle...the page now asks me to name the title of my blog!!! *Oh drag!!!!* i thought i just finished one...and now..yet ANOTHER one??!!!!

So i breathe deep (remember how i told you i was bad at naming! this was a big step for me!) i thought what i should name my blog...suddenly out of nowhere...high life popped in! whoaaa!! i knew it at that instance that It was the one!! now i was ready to start out....yayyyyy!!! so and thats the story of how i got here!! :)

So heres a girl who dreams of a high life and her wardrobe filled with beautiful silk things! till next time.....toodlez xo