The midnight picnic

I don't know about you, but i was always the person who feared to do things out of the ordinary! I feared risks and the problems that came out of it and always stuck to my comfort zone....I wanted to be a 'normal' person with no drama.....

But i might have jinxed it at some point in my life...cause my life was like a drama/troubles magnet!!! I was thrown heads first into the very things that i wanted to stay out of....but then i decided that i was bored of my comfort zone and try things in life that i wouldn't normally do!

Anyhow....i don't know why i decided to share that...but i realized that i like doing things out of the ordinary and i like standing out....like 'literally'!! lol...its sooo much fun doing that to be honest!!

So this fine day on christmas eve my lovely sister and i decided to head to the beach to spend christmas night there and have a picnic there....and we spent the rest of the night staring at the stars!!! it was just soooo stunning! I wanted to go for a midnight dip in that icy water before i saw some dodgy boys passing some remarks and whistles and i didn't want to provoke them more with me in water by myself!!!! lol

But that night was unforgettable specially when we woke up to see a rising sun...the sky was beyond description....it was as if God himself had painted it for us to see! How many things have we mortals missed that God created for us??? And why do we miss it?? is it cause we're too busy with our lives? But when we stop our rat races to just admire the amazing world that we live in....it's simply breathtaking the beauty of it! Unless you witness it with ur own eyes you woudnt know what i'm talking about!! *winks*

So what i propose it...take a day off your hectic work day...head to the country with your mates where there is no cell phone reception or any technological interferences(but make sure your GPS is working...we wouldnt want to be lost now do we!) and just let your self loose and watch how amazing the place we live in is!!!! After all....It IS a wonderful world!!!!

Till next time....
Toodlez
xo

Walking in fields of lavender

When your world is full of sweet smelling days wise men say that it reflects on our outward appearance too. Feeling wonderful beings from the inside...when you feel that no one in this world can be more happier than yourself. Even the things that used to bring you down easily now seem so distant and aloof. Isn't that such a great feeling?

But it's also true that life will never be a smooth walk in the lavender fields. I can bet you anything that you're gonna trip on stones sometimes, hurt by a few thorns along the walkway, maybe get your clothes torn by a few hedge bushes by accident, or even get that ice cream you bough with so much desire pecked away by some greedy bird!!

The most important thing that you not focus on the those bad things that make you stop, but look around at that vast expanse of field around you and how amazing they smell. The more we focus on the things that trip us down, the more that the field is gonna look dangerous and forbidding!

Its also true that it's not always easy not looking back on bad moments. Our nature is such that we tend to reflect on those unfortunate instances and some will even dwell on them. It takes the right moment and the right people to help you get out of those memories and make you walk right again. And its these kinda people that will teach you how to shed positive light on those negative areas on life!

So whenever somethings bothering you or trying to bring you down....just look up and see how amazing the world is...and you will see the difference!

Till next time...
Toodlez
xo

Emotions run deep!

Ever heard that line?? "Emotions are running deep"....come to think of it....it has a subtle but very powerful meaning to it.

Emotions in our lives control how we behave, how we look at things and perceive them and how we even react to certain problems posed to us during that time! So it is extremely important that we keep our emotions on a constant watch......or can we really?

Smart arses say that emotional changes are the result of chemicals in our brains(aka hormones) having a wild party among themselves.....but what I'm really interested at this point in time how a person can experience two entirely different emotions during a short period of time!

Just the other day the world was collapsing on you...but today....you are walking on top of the world! Just the other day the dog on the street had a look in it's eyes which screamed "I have a better life than you" and then the very next day you feel that your more luckier than the kings who rule this earth!!! It's crazy to believe, but it is true and everyone of us would have gone through that experience at least once in our lifetime!

Sometimes it can be persons or instances which bring about this drastic change in emotions. You start feeling things you've heard in only Indian movies and suddenly you have the urge to run around trees with whoever singing at the top of the voice!!

Or even more embarrassing...you could be sitting in a packed train with your phone beeping with text message alerts ever second without a break, and you have a silly smile permanently pasted across your face.....everyone who would have witnessed a person like that would immediately know that someone out there is definitely making this individual very happy!!!

But all i have to say is...if someone/something/OR someone(yes i repeat) is making you happy...embrace it with your arms wide open...because good things only come your way once in awhile....and don't let them slip away!

Till next time!
Toodlez
xo

Made to perfection!

Ever heard people talk about finding the right one and often times when you've gone...this is just crazy crap!! It ain't ever gonna happen!!!

But it's all true....amazing things DO happen when u least expect it or when you think all's lost!!! True story of my life....when the world seemed dark...out of nowhere and totally randomly i saw light....i didn't know what to expect..drew closer to the mere fact that it was warm and reassuring!

And I MUST say that this light of mine didn't prove me wrong or disappoint me...but keeps giving me only more than I ask for! At the start i thought i could just keep this light in my shelf of friendships....and i was eager and determined that i should keep it there as well!!!

As i said before...amazing things happen unexpectedly and this light happen quite when I didn't expect it it took me by total surprise!!! And it was a good surprise i tell u!!! lol

Sometimes surprises like that are needed in life to make us realize alot of things:
1. What our worth really is
2. That good people are still out there in the world
3. You need to meet some 'wrong' people before you meet the nice ones so that you can fully appreciate them

Having said this....10th of December 2010 is prolly gonna be dated as the best days of my life....and it will surely been going down my history book!!

 Till next time.....

Toodlez!
xo

I wanna stick with u!

I don't wanna go another day,
So I'm telling you exactly what is on my mind.
Seems like everybody's breaking up
Throwing their love away,
But I know I got a good thing right here
That's why I say (Hey)

Nobody gonna love me better
I must stick with you forever.
Nobody gonna take me higher
I must stick with you.
You know how to appreciate me
I must stick with you, my baby.
Nobody ever made me feel this way
I must stick with you.

And now
Ain't nothing else I can need 
And now
I'm singing 'cause you're so, so into me.
I got you,
We'll be making love endlessly.
I'm with you 
Baby, you're with me 

So don't you worry about
People hanging around,
They ain't bringing us down.
I know you and you know me
And that's all that counts

So don't you worry about
People hanging around,
They ain't bringing us down.
I know you and you know me
And that's why I say

xo

Did you have to go through the mill??

So when i was a kid....my mom used to spend hours telling me about her life story...and il just sit there and wonder if she didnt have anything else to do...something more productive maybe???

When i hit my 14's 15's she started telling me about relationships..and how important they are to us..and how difficult it is when you actually end up with the wrong person! But me being me...thought she was from a generation which was a million years old..and that i knew better than what she was telling me....

But v often fail to recognize that these casual talks that our parents occasionally/non-warningly throw at us are attempts to save us from going through the 'mill' that they have been through...but we(some of us at least) think vr the wise men of the planet and that we know more than them...jump in right on the puddle that was warned us about time and time ago!!!! And then...life kicks you right in the shins!!!!! ;)

And then after you've been through the mill and u come like corn flakes...you look back and think...'Darn..i last time I r'ber i was just wheat plant...how did i come out like this?' This question is actually double-edged...some people come out better but some people just go the negative point of it...and realizing this and making things right will involve another 'into-the-mill' session!!! However, the good note is that once you've seen how to put up with hard times...you'l be able to turn and bend upside down...like literally! :P

But i always think...why cant we just simply listen to wise people's saying and stay outta the mill...??? Well..i have to admit it works for some people..(who are smart enough) but others are just curious and wanna intentionally stick their finger into fire and see what happens...sadly enough i am a person like that...but i should say...'the mill' does give u some grinding, refining and cleaning...and when you come outta the other side...ur some real high class flake!!! lol

But i also do get the notion that there are mills in every aspect that v will all have to go through some point in our life...and just receive it happily with no regrets!!! And always remember that BIG HUGE SMILE!!!!!!

Have a happy mill journey!!!!

Till next time!
Toodlez...
xo